Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Viletta Carr with the following comment:
I am researching her husband, John Edward Cowlman, who is my great great uncle. Hannah Maria Carr married him in about 1880. He absconded with money from the Sleaford Friendly Society in 1902 and was never heard of again. She must have changed her name back to Carr and is hence buried as such. Regards, Frank Langcaster.